Thursday, February 27, 2014

Looking for Something to brighten your day?


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Friday, February 14, 2014

Words from our past director, Rev



"I sat in school and got a degree, I served in Camp Kesem and got an education."

I don't mean to belittle my college professors, the prestige of the university, or undermine the things I learned in class, but ultimately my education has come from experiences-one in particular- far beyond the classroom. 

I worked a ton through college, and most of it wasn't on class assignments. Instead, I had a full time job as well as being fairly committed to other responsibilities as a husband, father, Boy Scout leader and too many other things to list I share this because it puts into perspective how vital Camp Kesem was to my education and development. I couldn't let go of it no matter how busy I got or how many commitments I felt already were on my plate. There was always time for CK, even if "time" meant at 11:59pm. 

I participated in CK from January 2011 to August 2013, and on my last day I cried, and wept. I cried because I was completely exhausted and I wept because I felt a joy that is best expressed in a moment with no words, just the pure emotion of tears that tell a tale of what has been seen, accomplished, and experienced. 

Beyond the tears, what did I gain from CK? In a literal sense, I exchanged dozens of hours a week for a leadership development course on the front lines. I lived and breathed organizational leadership, financial management, event planning, peer coaching, nonprofit management, training and development, and all the other pretty topics you read about in your college business book. Not only that, but I experienced it all while falling in love with over 100 children and university students. It was glorious and as I mentioned already an education beyond anything I could have anticipated day 1 of freshman year. 

I love my CK family. I love that while many students spent their hours in the library getting A's, I was out in the streets getting as many C's as possible. C's as in "children whose parent has/had cancer". (Honestly, I got C's in the classroom too, but that is a topic better addressed later.) I love that my last week of summer for 3 years was a 24/7 service activity making magic for kids who needed their childhood back. I love that all I could talk about the first month of the semester was "lemon head" and "Minnie" and "purple star" and "sporty" and "el guapito". While everyone else talked about the relaxing summer, I loved talking about the $2000 donation that came I right before camp. I loved sharing what a camper or a counselor shared about how cancer affected them. I loved remembering (daydreaming in class) what I saw in the eyes of children who lost their mom, their strength, their love, their bold commitment to live life without excuses, their compassion, their pain, and often their tears of sadness but more importantly (and often) of joy. 

As you can tell, I am very biased. Camp Kesem wasn't just a service activity, it was a life. A monthly, weekly, daily, even hourly commitment to providing even a moment's worth of strength to families suffering from the cold hearted and evil doer---cancer. I didn't just volunteer to babysit some kids for a week of summer. I lived out each day for over two years planning, preparing, funding, and executing an experience parents desperately wanted their kids to have...fun, despite the circumstances. 

Camp Kesem stays with me even though I am past the day to day activities of preparing for camp. There is not a single skill, trait, attribute, bit of knowledge that I have today that didn't pass through the CK filter. I look back on CK and see it as the petri dish for everything good that came of my college years. My concern today, even without being directly responsible, is that as many cancer patients and survivors as possible can get their kids to Camp Kesem.

Thursday, January 23, 2014

What is it like to be a Camp Kesem counselor?


In honor of our new counselor applications opening this week, it is only fit that this week’s blog post be about what it is like to be a counselor.

     Each counselor is put in charge of a certain group of campers arranged by age: 6-8, 9-11, 12-14, 15-17.  They share the responsibility of looking over their designated campers.  At the beginning of the week when the campers arrive, all the counselors are full of energy and ready to give it their all.  By the end of the week, every counselor is still giving it their all and full of energy, but also suppressing sleep loss and how they really shouldn’t have any energy left but it’s coming from somewhere (If you don’t feel like this by the end of the week, you’re doing it wrong).  But for some reason, this feeling is a great feeling.

     Each day, you as a counselor will have the opportunity to become a kid again.  This may include (but is not limited to) putting on wigs during drama, playing field games, dancing spontaneously on the spot multiple times a day, losing your manners during meal time, and playing Marco Polo during swim time.  Perhaps the most rewarding characteristic of being a counselor is acting as a mentor and seeing each child interact with the others.  Each night around 11 o’clock, all the counselors meet in the lodge to talk about the lows and highs of the day.   Even though every person may be dead-beat tired by that point, when the meeting usually ends around midnight, everyone is always ready for a late-night game of Frisbee or Basketball, putting on a movie, assembling a puzzle, or just talking.

     Even as you selflessly give of yourself for the week, I like to think that you get more than you give.  To me, one of the best rewards I have received from Camp Kesem over the past 2 years are the friendships I have made in that time.  You won’t find harder working, fun loving, diligent people than those at Camp Kesem BYU. 

The following are blurbs from current counselors about what Camp Kesem means to them:

“Being a counselor makes the whole year of planning worth every minute. The kids faces light up and I love knowing that I had a small part in that. The memories that I have from that one week inspire me for the next 51 weeks of the year. You really can't anticipate the change that this kids will bring to your life, but I promise you it's life-changing.“ – Ginger Snap
“Being a counselor at Camp Kesem is all about being a friend. You get to spend the whole week trying to find ways in which to make the campers have more fun, feel more comfortable, be more excited, etc. You get to listen to them when they talk to better get to know them and ask them questions so they can tell you what they need to. You get to make them laugh and laugh with them. You get to be their cheerleader and help them overcome their fears. It really is such an amazing and unbelievable experience that will change your life forever because you get to focus on these wonderful kids who struggle so much and just make their week that of magic.“ – Glinda
“Being a counselor at Camp Kesem means giving up a little, but receiving a lot. As a counselor, you give up one week of your summer. But, once you arrive at camp, and once you interact with these awesome kids, you realize that giving up a week of your summer was one of the best things that you could have done. These kids are at camp to forget about their hard times at home, in the “real-world.” They are at camp to have fun. You get to help them do that. As a counselor, you get to be the craziest you’ve ever been, and don’t have to worry about what other people think when you run around, scream cheers, act like a dinosaur, or even get down on the dance floor. You also get to listen to and learn about the amazing and brave stories these kids have, and even share your own sometimes. Together you laugh, together you cry, together you grow, and together, you get to forget about the world.“ – Baloo
So what are you waiting for?  Applications are open now!  Sign up for a life-changing and rewarding week this summer!

Monday, January 13, 2014

Camp Kesem - A magical week for children whose parents have cancer

The start of a new year brings many new opportunities.  It may be the resolve to eat less, eat more, keep up the gym habit at least a week longer than last year, or just being an all around better person.  Beginning January 1st, we were thrilled to open registration for brand new campers wanting to enroll in Camp Kesem BYU's 2014 session!  We are already excited with the new families who have signed up and look forward to getting to know them.  This year, we are expanding our enrollment from 75 to 100 children, so almost a fourth of our campers will be new faces.  Leaving home for a week can be tough on many people (not just for kids, but adults too).  Our purpose is to create a fun, magical, and comfortable environment in order for these children to forget their worries.  The aim of this post is to take you, whether young or old (even after attending for so many years, many parents probably STILL don't know what happens at camp), on a virtual tour of camp for the week.


Monday - Campers arrive!  Probably one of the most looked forward to days of the year (even more than Disneyland or Christmas say some of our campers).  Old friends are reunited, new friends are made, and luggage is everywhere!  What happens that night?  Skits and opening ceremonies!  Everyone digs into the costume boxes and dresses up the counselors who then put on a fashion show.  As night falls, we gather around a warm, toasty fire and roast marshmallows.

 Tuesday - Wake up, shower, EAT, show everyone how to get down (ask a camper how they get down).  Tuesday begins our themed days.  This year, we lived nobly for MEDIEVAL DAY!  Swords were drawn and shields were brandished as the lads and lasses braved activities, hunted dragons, and ate some more.  After a hot day, we enjoy a swim in the pool to cool off.  SNACK!  At night, we play a crowd favorite, the magic chair game.  Everyone brings every random item they can think of down to the field, in hopes that the magic chair will call them up.  Closing circle.  Smores.  Cabin chat.  Bed (but not really).

Wednesday - Superhero day.  Who is your hero?  EAT! Do karate, build marshmallow guns and go on top secret missions.  We had a special guest presentation by Sub Zero Ice Cream as they showed us how to make ice cream from dry ice.  Since we didn't get wet enough from swimming, we held our annual WATER WAR.  This war had everything: super soakers, 1000+ water balloons, red buckets and not a single dry person!  We also welcomed the teen group back from their 3 day camping trip.  At night we had the best dance party you've never been too!  Snack.  Shower.  More snacks.  Lights out (but not really).


Thursday - We take a page out of the Harry Potter books for our magic day.  We create different "houses"  made up of all different age groups.  EAT!  We do drama activities, swim, and the awesome ropes course!  Will you conquer your fears?  Night brings our empowerment ceremony.  The one night where we openly talk with one another about how we deal with cancer.  It is a very powerful night for everyone.  Lights out (not really).

Friday - Today we live our dreams and be whatever we want to be.  EAT AND GET DOWN! Arts and crafts, more snacks, drama, outdoor adventure.  But it is really that night that everyone looks forward to: the talent show!  Both campers and counselors get to show off their skills from singing to playing an instrument to riding a magic carpet.  We share one last closing circle as our last night together.  Scary stories.  Sleep (not really).


Saturday - We clean up and await the arrival of the parents.  Awards are given out to every camper.  EAT!  Say goodbye for another year.






We hope to share this magical week with so many more people this year.  If you or someone you know would like to be a part of Camp Kesem BYU, you can follow the link to our registration page:
http://campkesem.org/camper-application

If you would like to help support Camp Kesem BYU with fundraising or donations, you can follow this link:
https://campkesem.givebig.org/c/CK13/a/campkesem-byu/